Manifesting! Do this when you want to make your dreams come true
I used to think that to get anything in my life I needed to keep my head down and work. I needed to deserve it. Turns out it is not like that at all! You and I deserve everything, always. The very fact that we don’t believe that is what makes it so hard to achieve the things we want. There are other, much more fun ways to achieve the things that you want and it has nothing to do with working 60 hours a week. It’s called manifesting. If you think this included meditating all day, you’re wrong 😉 Manifesting is all about creating the perfect circumstances for your desire to come true and then allowing it to happen. Here are the most important keys to manifesting whatever you desire.
You can be, do and have anything that you want.
The first step is to know and feel that this is true. In order to make anything reality, this is crucial. If you want to become healthy but deep down inside you think this is unrealistic, chances are small that you will get healthy. If you have doubts about being successful in your career, success will be hard. What you experience has everything to do with what you expect. Think about the placebo effect, the fact that you believe the sleeping pill makes you sleep, accounts for over 50% of the efficacy of the pill. If you expect good things, the good things are going to start to happen. If you know you are going to find a life partner that is perfect for you, you will. If you believe strongly you can succeed as an entrepreneur, you will. So, to believe, expect and KNOW that you can have what you want is the first step.
Get clear on what it is exactly that you want. Start by knowing you can have everything and then ask yourself what you want. Many times, we think we want all kinds of things, but when we think about it, we are happy with where we are. A few months ago, I decided to stop taking on more clients, because of my immigration to Chili. So the number of clients came down, which was exactly the idea. During this progress I very frequently thought; Why don’t I have more clients? Strange, right? I did exactly what I wanted, but I didn’t always felt like I had what I wanted. The same things happened to a client of mine who told me she was so unhappy with her life right now, she didn’t have job and she didn’t have a plan. When I asked her what she wanted to change about her situation she stayed quiet for a while. I continued to ask; do you want to have a job now? ‘No’ she answered. Do you want to have your plan figgered out right now? She answered no again and started laughing at herself. She was exactly where she wanted to be but she didn’t know! Now start to think about what it is that you really want, do you want clients, more money, a new car, a romantic partner. Do you really want that NOW? Yes? This is one important sign that you are ready to receive it right now.
Did you ever get angry at someone for not giving you something that you didn’t ask for? Maybe you did, but I think you agree that it doesn’t make sense. Place your order OUT THERE. Ask for what you want so it can be delivered at your doorstep. And get specific, when you order from amazon you don’t just ask for any book, you ask for a specific book from this and this writer. No, when you want something specific, ask specifically for this. Important note; Ask for what you want don’t ask for what you don’t want! What you give attention to grows so please focus on the positive things that you want instead of the negative thing you don’t want. For example, don’t say; I don’t want to be alone when you want to be in a relationship. Don’t say; I don’t want to be fat. Instead say; I want to find a loving partner to spend my life with, I want to be healthy, in shape and full of energy. Say it out loud. Can you feel how that feels? Better, you feel better when you formulate your desire positive! And now its starts to be even closer.
Gratefulness is the most important and powerful self-practice there is. Picture this. You have baked a wonderful cake for 3 kids. You really did your best to make it delicious and it looks amazing. When you present the cake one of the kids is truly happy and excited to see the cake and thanks you sincerely while taking a piece, the second one doesn’t care too much but says a polite thank you. The third one doesn’t look at you, grabs a piece and swallows it without chewing while the first kid is enjoying every bite. Th first kids thanks you again while the other kids continue to playing. At the end of the day there is one piece left, who are you going to give it to? I bet you gonna give it to kid numero 1. On a manifesting level it works the same. What you are grateful for expands. When you are grateful for the job that is not your dream job but still pays the bills and you have nice colleagues, you will manifest your dream job much easier than if you focus on how much you hate your job right now. It’s like sending love to specific parts of your life and you will see them transform.
Sounds easy, right? Hell yeah, you are going to be receiving your Ferrari when it arrives! But truth is that we all hold a lot of resistance against the things we want. Thoughts like; it is impossible, I need to work hard for that, I don’t think I can have that are resistant thoughts. This is your main job, to clean up all the believes and thoughts that are not in line with your desire. When your thoughts are in line with what you want and you feel happy and grateful, than it is time for the best step of this process. Collecting what you have been asking for 😉
Have fun Manifesting <3